Tuesday, August 11, 2009

How to Help Children Deal with Disabilities


Disabled children often feel out of place when the sense that they are different than their peers. Without help, they may nurture low self-esteem and/or behavioral disorders. However, with timely intervention and instruction, such children can be taught strategies to rise above their limitations. This article offers you a few guidelines on how to help such children handle their disabilities.

• Educate the child about his particular disability. Find age-appropriate books that focus on the problems the child is likely to encounter. Young children might gain from picture books about another child with similar disability. Older children can read about their diagnosis in detail. Talk to your state disabilities council for suggestions on educational materials that are appropriate for the child.

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• Teach the child on strategies for overcoming difficulties. For example, a child having a learning disability disorder can benefit from coaching in organizational skills and time management. Provide adaptive technology tools and gadgets to those with physical disabilities to help them deal with their conditions.

• Give social skills training to the child. Age-appropriate activities on social skills assist the disabled children in forming relationships with their peers and in turn increase their self-confidence. Many schools build social skills groups that are supervised by trained professionals. You can take advantage of these services.

• Teach the child to control his own behavior. Use a behavior chart to observe behavior. Engage the child in evaluating his daily behavior. Slowly give the responsibility of monitoring his behavior to the child by asking him to fill chart.

Emphasize on the positives. Help the child to identify his specific strengths and to find activities that utilize those strengths. A child with good short term memory will do extremely well at games that require recollection. Other children may be musically, artistically or athletically talented. Focus on enhancing these skills and look for opportunities for the child to excel.

• Continuously express your admiration for the child for the individual he is and make certain he recognizes that he is more than his disability. Maintain the focus on what he is good at to increase his confidence.

The guidelines mentioned above should offer you assistance in helping children deal with their disabilities. If you still face problems you should take the child to a disability counselor.